Resources for additional study on family roles:

MARRIAGE

Scriptures:
Ephesians 5:21-33
1 Peter 3:1-7

Books:
Love & Respect by Emerson Eggerichs
Sacred Marriage by Gary Thomas


Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage (DVD): www.laughyourway.com

Radio: Family Life Today and Focus on the Family

Seminars from familylife.com

www.crown.org – Biblical financial counsel


PARENTING

Scriptures:
Ephesians 6:4
Deuteronomy 6:4-9
Psalm 103:13

www.familymanweb.com – resources for dads

Books:

Don't Make Me Count to Three by GInger Plowman
Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp
Parenting with Love and Logic by Foster Cline and Jim Fay (www.loveandlogic.com)

How to Really Love Your Child by Ross Campbell
How Children Raise Parents by Dan B. Allender
The Five Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman

Facing the Facts, Truth About Sex and You by Stan and Brenna Jones (for ages 11-14)
How and When to Tell Your Kids About Sex by Stan and Brenna Jones
Wild At Heart by John Eldredge (understanding boys)


CHILDREN

Scriptures:
Proverbs 1:8-9
Exodus 20:12

Groups

Click on the picture below to see available Groups. Sign ups start January 15th (some information has been edited for privacy)

Did you like or miss this morning’s message (Jan 1^st)? See it here.

Here's a great video to watch Christmas morning with your family.




Here are some questions to ask your family after watching
the video:

1. What was important about the new star in the sky?
(Parents help- maybe you can point out that Jesus' birth was so important that the God made a spotlight for Him. Also, Jesus is the Light of the world and He brought hope to the dark and sinful world.)

2. Should we be like Jesus' daddy and be so proud of Jesus that we want everyone to know about him?

3. Do you tell others about Jesus?

4. Who can you tell about Jesus this year?

OUTSIDE OURSELVES

Christmas 2011 Serving Ideas

Write a letter to someone you haven't talked to in a while – affirm how important they are to you; how much you love them.

Be an “angel of the night” - go shovel someone's driveway who can't take care of it themselves (take your kids along).

Give your good stuff to Goodwill (with the tags still on them).

Invite someone over to share your Christmas meal.

Encourage someone who helps others – who has a thankless job.

When you go to the mall to shop, hang around an extra 10 minutes (you can set your watch) and look for someone who could use help – carrying bags, loading bags in the trunk.

Leave an enormous tip when you go out to eat, especially if your server seems tired or grumpy.

Comfort someone who is grieving this Christmas – a card, a plant, a visit.

Visit an elderly home – encourage the forgotten.

Get to know a new neighbor – or an old one you have been avoiding.

Pay for the coffee (or toll) of the person behind you in line.

Don't rationalize away your desire to give to a homeless person asking for money. If they use it for something unhealthy, that's on them not you. Or, offer to buy them a hot meal.

Volunteer at a homeless shelter AFTER Christmas.

Give till it hurts – stretch yourself.

Find a country in need outside the US. Commit to learning and praying about this country in the coming year, in addition to sending financial assistance through Samaritans Purse or another relief organization.

Invite someone to church.

Sponsor a child through Compassion or World Vision.

Set up a savings account specifically for the purpose of giving. Do special projects to raise money for the savings account every month. Pray about where to give the money next Christmas.

Brainstorm people to pray for each day of Advent.

Offer a couple with young children a much-needed night out.

Brown bag your lunch and give the money away.

Find a family in need and give them a Christmas they will never forget. (Go in with a small group or a few other families.)

Pay for the meal for another family in the restaurant where you are eating.

Give an elderly person a ride to do shopping, errands, or just to look at Christmas lights.

Cultivate an attitude of gratitude – in addition to your “I want” list, print out a calendar and write down something each day that you are thankful for.

Keep your giving secret.

Read a book to your children/family.

Consider foster care or adoption.

-Many of these ideas come from the great little book 101 Simple and Thoughtful Ways to Give This Christmas Away by Matthew West

OUTSIDE OURSELVES Part 2

Here are some ideas to think about others this Christmas and how to serve them.

CLICK HERE

PRAYER POINTS

Here are the prayer points distributed this past Sunday.

SUNDAY
PRAY that people connect with God through today's worship gathering, in children's ministry, and in Fusion tonight.

MONDAY
PRAY for success in fulfilling our vision: “CWC desires to meet people where they are in their faith journey and help them take the next step in their relationship with Jesus Christ.”

TUESDAY
PRAY for the hiring of a full time Youth Team Leader and someone to oversee Care & Groups.

WEDNESDAY
PRAY that our Group ministry may be healthy, and that more people will enter into Biblical community in the coming year.

THURSDAY
PRAY for God to raise up leaders to develop our “Serve the World” emphasis.

FRIDAY
PRAY that God will bring unity among leaders in all decisions related to staffing & space needs, and that He will provide the funds needed.

SATURDAY
PRAY that mature CrossWalk attenders will be motivated to mentor others for growth.

Operation Christmas Child begins this Sunday, October 23rd @ CrossWalk. Our shoe box final collection date is Sunday November 13th. Learn more about Operation Christmas Child on their web site. CLICK HERE.

Last Sunday to sign up for Groups

Click on the picture below to enlarge your view of the available Groups this fall. Last names have been blocked out online because...well...not everyone on the internet needs to know everything about the leaders! Sign up @ CrossWalk this Sunday.